RECORD OF MEETING WITH REPRESENTATIVES FROM REAL FATHERS FOR JUSTICE TO DISCUSS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE
FRIDAY 10 SEPTEMBER 2010 – 10.30AM MILLENNIUM HOUSE
IN ATTENDANCE:
Government Officials
Marian McIlhone Domestic & Sexual Violence Unit DHSSPS
Julie Houston Domestic & Sexual Violence Unit DHSSPS
Sharon Harley Community Safety Unit DOJ
Paul Lavery Community Safety Unit DOJ
Michael Graham
Brian O’Kane Supporting People NIHE
Finbar Cummins DSD
Real Fathers for Justice
Peter Morris
Cliffy Owens
Hugh McCloy
Brian Quinn
Apology
Eileen Sung OFMDFM
PURPOSE OF MEETING
Marian McIlhone welcomed everyone and explained that the meeting was convened to discuss a range of issues associated with male victims of domestic violence. She advised Peter Morris and his colleagues that issues raised during the course of the discussion would be fed back to the Regional Strategy Group (RSG). Marian McIlhone also explained that the current DV strategy is to be extended beyond its current planned end date (October 2010) to 2013.
Peter Morris outlined the concerns of the Real Fathers for Justice group including (but not limited to):
· The lack of support services in
· The criminal justice process for male victims of domestic violence;
· Fathers access to their children in such circumstances;
· Refuge facilities for male victims and
· The role of Mens Advisory Project (MAP) and funding received from DHSSPS.
It was suggested that men are being discriminated against in relation to Section 75. Peter Morris implied that there had been no change in addressing issues for male victims of domestic violence since the DV strategy was launched.
Peter Morris advised government officials that they intend to set up a group ‘Mens Aid NI’ to support male victims of domestic violence in NI to offer a range of services including respite care and will be looking to secure funding for the organisation. He explained that his group had developed a leaflet specifically targeting male victims of domestic violence which had their personal contact numbers on it.
Marian McIlhone explained that in the current economic climate, DHSSPS will not be funding any new organisations. She suggested that a potential way forward may be for organisations to work together collaboratively.
Hugh McCloy sought an assurance that funding issues due to CSR would not impact men further. Marian McIlhone explained that she was unable to give this commitment.
Support Services
Peter Morris and Brian Quinn spoke openly to the group about their personal experiences of domestic violence and the impact this had had on both themselves and their families. Hugh McCloy and Cliffy Owen also spoke about the experiences of male victims they knew of.
Cliffy Owens suggested that there are no support services for young men. He suggested that many men are reluctant to leave a violent situation where children are involved and consequently they ‘put up with it’ until their mental health deteriorates.
Marian McIlhone advised that PSNI statistics highlight that a ¼ of all victims of domestic violence (where gender is known) are male. She explained to the group that the DV strategy is gender neutral, recognising and responding proportionately to the needs of all victims. It was acknowledged that there are a range of issues experienced by men in such situations including sexual health issues, emotional and psychological needs and with many men experiencing suicidal feelings, it is crucial that links are made to all appropriate services.
Marian McIlhone advised the group that Lifeline a crisis response service is available to all people experiencing suicidal tendencies. Peter Morris acknowledged Lifeline but highlighted that there is a need for Lifeline to be clearly advertised in public telephones and also at locations where suicides are known to happen, for example Queens Bridge Belfast. He also suggested
that provision should be made for a lifeline specific phone at such locations.
Criminal Justice Process
Hugh McCloy spoke to the group about his views with regard to the problems with the current family law legislation including issues around contact orders. Cliffy Owen stated that the system is adversarial. Hugh McCloy suggested that the current legislation contravenes human rights and asked about the review of family law which had been promised by DFP but was subsequently withdrawn due to funding issues.
Peter Morris highlighted that procedures relating to Court Orders and Welfare Benefits prohibit men from accessing services and benefits such as housing, income support etc.
DOJ colleagues undertook to ascertain what was happening with regards to the review of family law and issues regarding court orders.
MAP
Peter Morris indicated that he is aware that MAP are represented on RSG. He explained that MAP only offer two main services, anger management programmes and counselling and they do not provide a sufficient service. He questioned how MAP manage their finances and the DHSSPS funding provision given to MAP.
Marian McIlhone explained that MAP have been involved in RSG for a number of years, representing the interests of male victims and contributing to the deliver of the DV strategy. She advised that it was not appropriate in this forum to discuss MAP funding matters which is an issue for the organisation to address itself. Marian McIlhone further explained that MAP had applied to DHSSPS to undertake a specific piece of research on male victims of domestic violence, the findings of which are due to be published on 28 September 2010.
Refuge Facilities
Michael Graham informed the group about NIHE’s responsibility for providing accommodation for all victims of domestic violence. He explained that during 2009, 19500 individuals were homeless and 63 of those were males who alleged domestic violence. There is a range of temporary accommodation facilities available across
Michael Graham clarified that every case is different and that not everyone who presents as homeless requires the same response. However a key principle is to ensure that an individual where possible remains within their current social network. If an individual presents during the daytime, NIHE will carry out an assessment to determine housing needs. In an after hours situation, social services within each of the Health and Social Care Trusts has responsibility for securing appropriate emergency accommodation.
Michael Graham advised that due to a change in attitudes in responding to homelessness, a review is currently underway of the ten Women’s Aid Refuges, as these facilities are beginning to experience under-occupation. He accepted that whilst there is a floating support service available for women, no such provision currently exist for men which needs to be addressed.
ACTIONS TO BE TAKEN FORWARD
During the course of the discussion, the following actions emerged:
| Action | Responsibility | Current Position |
1. | Lifeline needs to be properly advertised in public phone kiosks and in locations where it is common for suicides to occur (e.g. | Marian McIlhone (DHSSPS) | 10/09/10: Matter referred to DHSSPS officials who have responsibility for implementing the Suicide Prevention Strategy. |
2. | DOJ to ascertain current status of review of family law legislation. | Sharon Harley (DOJ) | |
3. | DOJ to examine issues with contact orders. | Sharon Harley (DOJ) | |
4. | NIHE to look at the need for floating support services for male victims of domestic violence | Michael Graham (NIHE) | |
Julie Houston
Domestic & Sexual Violence Unit
DHSSPS
10 September 2010
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